Start Here: A Guide to "Living Into the Truth"
Start here to read this serialized memoir of how uncovering family secrets allowed me to live openly as my authentic self.
Welcome to Living Into the Truth: A Daughter’s Journey of Discovery (originally published as If You Only Knew: A Memoir of Family Secrets and Their Undoing, as a serialized memoir I released a chapter at a time between January and July 2024). It is available in print and eBook formats as of November 1, 2024, wherever books are sold.
Because this story is about the impact of lies on a family’s life, it's not an easy tale to tell. I wish my parents had told me the truth about my ancestry, but if they had, I wouldn’t be the person I’ve become. The fortifications built to contain the real story live inside me, whether or not I’d found a secret passageway into it. And because I like the person I’ve become, I don’t begrudge this story its right to exist.
Although my story has an unusual twist (you’ll have to read more to learn about that), it’s not an uncommon one. With the advent of consumer DNA testing, thousands of people are experiencing DNA surprises where they learn that they’re unrelated to one or both parents who raised them. Entire communities of NPE’s (a genealogical term for “non-paternal event“ commonly interpreted as “not parent expected”) have come together on social media and in person to find their way through the lies they were told.
I hope reading my story provides some hope and healing to all those struggling with knowing the truth.
Using this guide, you can follow the story chapter by chapter, or pick up where you’ve left off, so you don’t miss any of it.
Prologue
A series of four letters I wrote to my Mom with stuff I couldn't/wouldn't/didn't say to her when she was alive.
Part 1
Now that the print and eBook versions are available for purchase, the following chapters are available for paid subscribers only
Part 2
Part 3
Becoming a Paid Subscriber
Why become a paid subscriber? As a paid subscriber, you’ll help me cover the expenses involved in independently publishing the print, eBook, and eventually audio formats of this book. In addition, you’ll receive free eBooks of this and my other upcoming book, Accidental Mentors: Inspirational Stories of Women Who Shape My Life by Just Being Themselves. You’ll also receive my gratitude, which is priceless!