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I'm thinking about my beloved Aunt Carolyn, who died in January 2017. Her life wasn't easy, as she suffered from rheumatoid arthritis and, later, dementia. But what I remember is her devotion to bringing light into others' lives. She was a teacher who worked with second language learners, bringing the joy of books into their lives. She was an avid singer and bell choir member at her church, bringing the joy of music into parishioners' lives. Most of all, she was my mentor and the person who knew me best of all in this world. In death, her light still shines. It is my pleasure to continue renewing her spark, which exists deep within my heart and soul.

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She sounds like a beautiful soul who had a great influence on you. I hope you'll consider writing a piece for my "Accidental Mentors" series about her. I ended this series in early 2024, but I will be re-engaging with it in 2025, as I plan to publish the series of my posts in book form. I would welcome another guest post about your aunt if you feel so inclined. Timeline is open. https://www.annettemarquis.com/p/am-submission-guidelines

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That is a wonderful idea.

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A really complex, sometimes difficult, moment, the solstice. My aunt died this year - I dreamt about her a few weeks before, she was giving me a haircut (she was not a hairdresser) and we were having a good laugh. When my cousin told me weeks later, I shared the dream, and she was shocked - the last few weeks of her life were one missed hairdressing appointment after another as her health failed. So that was a nice moment, if only in a dream, that foretold a coming sadness. Hope often fades when we lose faith in ourselves, our ability to meet each challenge. Just making one small incremental effort - a walk, a breath, a smile - can make a difference. I love Dorothy's paper flames, what a beautiful tradition. Thanks for this month of Hope, Annette!

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That is a beautiful story, Troy. Such a powerful moment, even in your dreams, of connection with one you clearly loved. May memories of times you spent together come back to you in dreams and in real life. I love your observation, "Hope often fades when we lose faith in ourselves." I think that's so true. At least it is for me. Thank you for staying connected to your aunt and to hope.

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