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Love this fond reminiscence of your dad, Annette, even if there were some machinations to get from a "lie" to the truth in your family. What else will we discover? ;) "Oh my achin' back!" Ha! That's a new one...

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Don't you love it! "Oh my achin' back!" is my favorite "momism." I can hear her say that more clearly than just about anything!

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My new favorite ;)

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I am really enjoying this memoir! Great writing. I've just finished one myself and I can see where publishing it as installments would work! I look forward to reading the rest. Oh, and the inclusion of photos is perfect. I love the one of you and your brother where you are shirtless! Thanks.

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Hi, Cynthia. So good to hear from you. When you're ready to start posting to your Substack, let me know and I'll recommend it. I'd love to hear more about your memoir, too.

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Lovely story about hidden lives, but also the social norms of the day. I do feel sorry for Betty, to lose her fifth husband. Did she divorce the previous ones as well?

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Thank you. I appreciate your comments. To tell you the truth, I know very little about Betty’s previous husbands. One was alcoholic but that’s all I know. Maybe I need to do some research!

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And if she married a sixth time?!

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As far as I know she didn’t. She died about six years after her divorce from Dad was final.

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Love the way this is unfolding. I think you've worked in more details and more of your own responses since the drafts that I read years ago. It's beautiful how this has risen to the surface again in such an insightful way.

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Thank you, Anne-Marie. That means a lot coming from you. I feel like my writing has matured and I’m much more confident in it than I was ten years ago. Your insight, encouragement, and support were invaluable ingredients to that.

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